This season is a festive one for all of us in the northern hemisphere. Ragnarok has been averted, as the sun came back up. The days are getting longer. For whatever reason you're celebrating at this time of year, it all comes down to agriculture. The hardest part of the winter isn't over, but we now believe it will end.
As an atheist, I've never really been comfortable celebrating Christmas. It's never been fun for me growing up, as it's always been "There's lots of booze in the house so let's have an earth shattering not talk to each other for years family fight-mas".
Falling in love with a jewellers daughter, and joining the family business has changed that. Most people celebrate at this time of year, and a lot of people buy jewellery for celebrations. We're super busy, and we work our asses off, but at the end, we collapse then celebrate. There's probably more alcohol consumed, but it's celebratory, not avoidance.
I still don't celebrate Christmas, but I do celebrate the season, the solstice. I celebrate every one else's joy.
The flip side is the sorrow I used to see when I used to work as a nightclub doorman. People who aren't celebrating at this time of year are either angry, depressed or desperate. There are the angry people who end up starting fights on Christmas Eve. There are the depressed who start drinking when the bar opens, and are hoping to pass out long before it closes. Then there are the desperate. The ones who will be at the Open Door food bank, or the people we'll be counting on Jan 15th. The ones who are desperate every day... although, at this time of year they are remembered more than most. It speaks volumes about most people's true goodness that the gross abundance on most North Americans table at Christmas/Hannukah/Kwanzaa/Solstice/Saturnalia triggers a concern for the less fortunate. Charity may not be the best response to the imbalance of wealth, but it beats the hell out of apathy.
I've realized that once again I've done a stream of consciousness rant. What the hell is the point? Well, basically, I believe that this is a time of celebration, but that celebration should be tempered by an awareness of the fact that not everyone can celebrate. Take some time this year to think of what you can do to change the structure that allows some to starve or freeze to death on Christmas day, while we feast. There isn't anything wrong with our feast. There is wealth enough for all to feast. What is wrong is that some can't.
I'll take a few moments to plan what I'm going to do to try and change that in my neck of the woods in the upcoming year.... Then I am going to have a stupendously good meal.
Enjoy. I may post some linkage tomorrow, then I'm gone until Monday!
Love y'all!
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